Ever since I met Grandma Geraghty 9 years ago, I've looked up to her as one of my heroes. She always wore a bright smile and didn't have a negative word to utter. She lived by herself to the age of 100. She willingly volunteered to give up her car several years ago because she no longer felt safe. She moved to the nursing home one month ago because she knew she needed more care. She made these decisions herself, with confidence and grace. I always loved telling people about her, and how someday, I hope I can be like her. She had amazing patience and talent at needlepoint, she was sharp as a tack at cards, and her condo was always impeccable. She was also sweet as could be, showing her love through every smile, every hug. Every time I called her, she always repeated "Stephanie, it's just so nice to hear from you."
Grandma passed away this morning at the nursing home. Aunt Sheila was with her and it was a quiet peaceful passing. Shannon told me that she looked so beautiful that last day.
Despite all the wonderful time with her, her passing still seemed to happen quickly. I talked to Pam early this week about Grandma's phone number so I could call her at the nursing home. Pam said she would love to hear from me. I also bought her a pretty card that simply stated, "Thinking of You." Before I even mailed the card or made the call, I was told that Grandma's health was failing quickly. She was barely eating or drinking and faintly coherent.
I'm just thankful for all the time we all did have with her, and that Caden and Cole got to meet her. We were able to attend her 100th birthday party last September and have many wonderful memories from that trip.
Brian is unavailable to talk at this time, but he was aware that Grandma was ill. He told me he wished he could be there for his Dad. He made the effort to call them yesterday, and the timing was impeccable. At that time, they were at the nursing home with Grandma, and Pat shared Brian's words of "I love you" to her.
Grandma, we will miss your quiet happy presence at our gatherings. Your positive perspective on how to live life is something we should all aspire to reach.
To my incredible inlaws, I am so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers will take a different angle now, and we will help you through this. Much love and we'll see you soon.
If you wish to express condolences, you can email Pat and Pam at geraghtyporp@hotmail.com, or contact me personally and I'll provide their mailing address. The wake will be held at Immaculate Conception in Cedar Rapids on Monday evening from 4-7pm, and the funeral on Tuesday morning at 10am.
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